Thursday, January 10, 2008

Chinese Astrology Compatibility
There is a belief amongst the Chinese community that those who are born four years apart are more compatible than those who are born six year apart. Do you know why?
In the 12 Animals Zodiac system of astrology, our character is influenced by our year of birth. For example those born in the year of the rat are intelligent and suspicious while those born in the year of the horse are generous and loves freedom. Based on our year of birth we are imbued with certain characteristics that make us more of less compatible with each other.
According to the ancient Chinese, the Monkey, Rat and Dragon form a compatible set. They have characteristics that make them more compatible with each other. The other compatible sets are the Snake, Rooster and Ox; the Pig, Rabbit and Goat and the Tiger, Horse and Dog. If you check the year of birth you notice that they are four years apart. For example those born in 1964 are Rats, 1968 are Dragons and 1972 are Monkeys!
The Rat on the other hand is supposedly less compatible than the Horse. They form an incompatible set. The other incompatible sets are between Ox and Goat, Tiger and Monkey, Rabbit and Rooster, Dragon and Dog and between the Snake and Pig. If you check the year of birth you will notice that they are six year apart!
The Chinese astrology compatibility tools that you find on the Internet are largely based on the abovementioned principles of combination and clash. Most will also include more combinations and clashes that I have not mentioned above but I hope you get the idea.
What if you and your spouse form an incompatible set? Do not panic. Did you notice that I used the word ‘supposedly’ many times? In practice our character is also heavily influenced by the month, day and hour of birth which is not taken into consideration in the above examples. Therefore it is entirely possible for a Rat person to display characteristics of other animals (influences from the month, day and hour of birth)!
In my practice, I have seen many supposedly incompatible sets of husbands and wives. They are still together after many years of marriage and some of them quite happily! Perhaps love plays a part too.


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5 Things To Do When Your Husband Has Cheated On You
You have irrefutable proof that your husband is cheating on you. How do you handle this information, this most personal of all betrayals? You confront him, he denies it, you show him the proof, he goes on the defensive. Accusations, denials, harsh words are flung at each other till both sides retire to recoup and ponder the next step. So far it has been par for the course; but what you do next can determine the course of your life. So it is very, very important that you consider your next step. Remember that even those who care the most for you will offer advice or suggestions based on their subjective opinions and while they mean well, you are the one who will be affected the most by what you do.
How do you cope with the fact that your husband has been having an affair? Here are some suggestions that might help you come to terms with the harrowing situation.
1. Treat it as a bereavement - Treat the news as you would the news of any other deep loss. After all, it is the death of your marriage as you knew it, the death of trust, of your self confidence and your image of the two of you as one unit loyal to each other and to all that you have accomplished together in your marriage. It is neither fair to nor possible for someone in such a situation to "get over it" in a few days or even weeks. But with the passing of the days, you might find that the number of friends whole heartedly by your side has started dwindling. While no one would suggest that you mourn for months, no one but yourself can decide when you are ready to move on to the next step.
2. Take Stock - Once the grief has reached manageable levels, it is time to start taking stock of your life and your marriage. This is where you need to be as dispassionate as possible. Consider the length of marriage, the effect on the children, what your husband has brought to the marriage in terms of support, understanding, friendship - all the intangible assets that is each spouse's contribution to the marriage. Though it is natural to suspect your instincts and your faith in yourself is precarious, you can still look back on your years together and try to see the changes that have occurred in your relationship. Decide whether the changes have diminished your bond or enhanced it. Look at all that you know of your husband and decide whether this was a 'once in a lifetime mistake' or if there was always a niggling doubt that you just didn't want to explore till now.
3. Weigh the pros and cons of separation - Divorce is always an option, but once the emotional tempest subsides, you should ask yourself if it is the only alternative open to you. Even a trial separation can have unintended consequences as one or the other spouse might feel that from there to divorce is but a short step. While living in the same house as the one who has hurt you so badly will be difficult, it is a tacit admission that there is still the desire to salvage the marriage. If on the other hand, you think divorce is the only solution, then you should make sure that you consider all aspects of your resolution, so that you have no regrets later.
4. State Your Terms - Once you have decided on what you plan to do, it would be a good idea to state your intentions to your husband in as unambiguous and unemotional a manner as possible. Bear in mind that he most likely feels guilty and hence resentful, so he will not be in a mood for what he thinks will be more condemnation. Imagine his surprise when you tell him very calmly, without histrionics or blame, how his actions have made you feel and what you plan to do about the situation. Gauge his reactions dispassionately - whether he is genuinely remorseful or is just mouthing self serving promises and platitudes. Listen to his explanations and see if both of you are willing to give your marriage a second chance. This is too important for it not to be a joint decision.
5. Decision Time - Having talked to your husband and heard each other's point of view, it is time for you to make a decision. Do you think it is worth continuing in the marriage or do you feel that it is not something you can commit to? Whatever the outcome of your decision, make sure that it is something that you can live with.
The marriage will never be as it once was, the trust is gone and it will be a long time before you can even think of forgiving him. Your husband needs to regain your trust and you do need to be able to set aside your feelings of anger and bitterness. But the good news is that it can be done if both of you are willing to commit yourselves to salvaging your marriage. With help and hard work, the relationship between you and your husband can become even more profound, based as it is on a new understanding of each other. Is this something important enough to fight for? Only you can decide.

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